Monday, December 28, 2009

Merry Christmas 2009

Hi Everyone,

We hope you had a wonderful Christmas. We are enjoying our time in Phoenix with my family. Please enjoy our annual Sheehan Shenanigans Christmas letter and our card. We hope 2010 brings you great things!

Love,
Kris and Michael




Sheehan Shenanigans

Worn down the other night by reading pages upon pages of monotonous high school essays, I succumbed to a bout of procrastination and stopped by Facebook and stumbled upon a status update by my old University of Maine graduate school roommate Bill, who reported that he too was working on his annual family Christmas letter. I proceeded to ask him if he had any ideas I could use for the 2009 edition of the Sheehan Shenanigans, promising that I would give him full credit if he would agree to act as my muse. Bill responded with two suggestions from which my theme could emanate: the 1986 movie Shanghai Surprise, starring Madonna and Sean Penn; and the recent Dubai financial meltdown. But do I really want to do that – create some kind of weird parallel between those entertainment and fiscal disasters and this message of holiday goodwill and cheer? It would go over as well as a Tiger Woods endorsement for…well…just about anything at this point. Perhaps it’s better to make this letter theme-less and simply tell some stories about the Sheehans and what we’ve been up to this year. I can guarantee that we have not been nominated for any Golden Raspberry Awards, caused any financial consternation in the Middle East or beyond, or crashed into any trees or fire hydrants. No, our mishaps and misfortunes have been much less calamitous and certainly contained well within our four-person world. And really, it’s only troubling when we’re in the “Molly Zone” – those times when soon-to-be-five Molly has the household so amped with emotion and energy that we’ve all turned on each other, yelling, screaming, crying, throwing tantrums, and acting like…well…Molly. Allow me to set the scene: the apartment is calm and quiet throughout. Harmony reigns. Hark! A simple, melodious call to dinner. And then it happens…we’ve entered…The Molly Zone. I’m not hungry! I can’t walk! I’m tired! I don’t like this food! Benjamin looked at me! Where’s my pink fork? My tummy hurts! Oooowweeee! My chair isn’t pushed in! Where’s my orange juice? I wanted the Little Einsteins cup! Stop calling me Linda Blair! And soon the behavior becomes contagious, enveloping us all like an insidious mutant strain of H1N1. Quickly, Benjamin is lured into the Zone and begins his own rant, and before long I’m glaring at Kris and she at me, and we both fume inside, wondering whose side of the family we can blame for these outbursts. We both swear we never acted like this as children. Never. YOU let them play Wii too much! YOU give them too much candy! YOU never discipline them! YOU give them diet coke! YOU let them stay up too late! And then I try to think of a retort. Yeah, well, you, YOU make them do their homework! However, as quickly as we entered the Zone, the maelstrom has suddenly and inexplicably abated…and we are out of it. It’s as if, magically, a switch is flipped, and the kids are as happy and content as they’ve ever been, the perfect children we imagined and hoped they would be when they were babes in swaddling clothes. They take one last bite of dinner, excuse themselves, and run off to take a bath. But that doesn’t mean the two of us are fine. Noo waaaay. You see, being in the Molly Zone is like getting hit by an emotional tsunami. No warnings, no overt signs…just WHAM…and you’re swallowed up by it. And even when the waters have long since crashed over us and mostly receded, we still reel and wallow in the residue and remnants of the bickering, complaining, and whining. It’s a weird post-traumatic experience that most parents of young children can identify with – and most parents of older children can laugh about. Now it would be unfair to lay blame entirely on Molly for the occasional volatility of our household, for besides our parental misfires, she had a wonderful teacher and mentor in Benjamin. Just a year ago, for example, we were ready to skip Christmas dinner with some friends because Benjamin refused to wear anything other than the pair of ripped red sweat pants that he had worn every single day for two months. Seriously. It was a meltdown of epic proportions, one that could easily be included in the Children’s Emotional Breakdowns Hall of Fame. Even Molly, several weeks shy of her fourth birthday, was rolling her eyes at him. But what a difference a year makes, because now he, at seven-years old, is so much more eventempered and self-sufficient. And he even chooses from among four pairs of pants instead of just one. The irony in all of this is that the Molly Zone, as well as the previously inferred Benjamin Zone, takes place only when we, the loving and doting parents, are present. At school for example, the kids are nearly perfect, both getting glowing marks for their performance and behavior from their respective teachers. Molly has even been called, and I’m not making this up, a leader for the positive example she sets among her pre-kindergarten peers. In fact, both of them have excelled in school and are reaping the greatest benefit from our incredible international experience – a top-notch private education. They’re even learning Mandarin and have made enormous strides toward becoming bilingual. When Xiao Cao, our Chinese nanny who does not know a lick of English, tries to speak to me, I have to look to Molly for a translation, which she is more than happy to do. So, as much as her behavior can confound and befuddle us – which is about 68.2 percent of the time, we have high hopes that she’s turning the corner…and that the Molly Zone will soon be a distant memory, much like Benjamin’s affinity for his tattered red sweat pants. And that, dear friends and family, is our year in Shanghai – not exactly the stuff of tabloids, but, to us at least, somewhat surprising, mildly unpredictable, and a bit out of the ordinary. Thus, we wish you all a wonderful holiday season, and we do hope that our paths can cross in 2010 – if not in person, then at least on Facebook. And until we meet again, be well, and do your best to stay out of the Zone.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Benjamin's Soccer Season

Benjamin is just finishing up his second year of soccer and has made some great improvements this year in his skill and confidence. It is fun to watch him learn and enjoy a team sport. We finished the season at a tournament in Gubai with several other teams. Our boys were stunned by the competition as our friendly teams in Zhudi team are not nearly as aggressive as those in Gubei. By the final game, though, they had made huge improvements and had learned to be much more aggressive when playing. I am very happy that we are playing in our small little area as the competition was a bit too intense for my taste. It was a fun experience, though.

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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Kindergarten Career Unit

In March, the kindergarten students at SAS studied careers. Benjamin really enjoyed the unit and chose to "become" a photographer. Michael was the guest speaker for the photographer group. As yearbook advisor, Michael is often seen around campus with his camera so is also considered to be a photographer.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

K-2 Concerts

Each month at SAS there is an assembly for all K-2 students. Each grade level performs and students from each class receive awards. In February, Benjamin was very excited to earn an award for good behavior. Then, in March, his class did a Dr. Seuss presentation. It was pretty cute. Benjamin is the one in all red in the middle group. He really had his moves down!



A slideshow of the preparation for the assembly:



Receiving his award in February:

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Molly Turns 4

Molly turned 4 on January 30 and we had a party for her in our apartment. She invited 5 friends, their siblings and parents and we ended up with quite a party. We grilled and talked and ate. At the end, we even had fireworks in the street. It was a pretty amazing site and the kids loved it. Molly was excited by the new camera she got as well as all of the Barbies. She loves playing with her Barbies and acting things out. She is also having fun playing with her new puppet theater! Now, I am hoping 4 is easier than 3.

Chinese New Year

We had a week off during the Chinese New Year holiday and we decided to head downtown for a few days with some friends. We stayed in an apartment/hotel near Old Town and had a great time. We went to Yu Yuan Garden, wandered around the Old Town Area, went to the Bund and went through the sightseeing tunnel and had lunch in Pudong. We even attended a circus and watched in awe as a bike broke away from one of the riders and flew into the front row and landed on a lady in the audience. It was an action-packed few days and it was fun to play tourist for a while.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Chinese New Year

We are looking forward to experiencing our first Chinese New Year next week. The elementary school had two assemblies and Benjamin participated in the primary grade assembly. The kids also made Chinese lanterns, wore traditional Chinese clothing -- Benjamin stuck with his red sweats since red is the color for Chinese New Year. It is fun to see the city decorated for this important holiday. We are looking forward to a week off from school.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Ice on the Pond

It finally got cold enough for a bit of ice to form on the pond. Benjamin and Molly were amazed to see the pond frozen over and spent a lot of time throwing rocks on the ice, breaking off large sheets of ice and shattering them, and even standing on top of the ice at the very edge of the pond. Benjamin wanted to go back to the pond constantly for two days. He filled the freezer with sheets of ice to save for later. Now, if we could just get a bit of snow his life would be complete.


Monday, January 5, 2009

Shanghai Aquarium

We finally made it to the Shanghai Aquarium in Pudong and it was as exciting as we had heard. Sharks and stingrays floated overhead as we rode down the elevator. We saw turtles, penguins, and tons of fish. After the aquarium, we headed to a noodle shop and had our first experience in a restaurant where no one spoke English. We managed to get what we wanted and successfully ate our meals with chopsticks. The kids will try almost anything.

Friday, January 2, 2009

Christmas Season 2008

We decided to stay in Shanghai for Christmas so we could have some time to finish settling in and we could do a bit of sightseeing. We spent the first week hanging pictures, shopping for presents, visiting with friends and getting organized. By the time Christmas came, we were tired, but settled. We spent Christmas Eve at a party with other teachers and their families. On Christmas morning, Santa brought everything the kids were hoping for: Wii, Star Wars Legos, doll house. Grandma, Grandpa, Nanny, Mom and Dad provided most of what Santa forgot: more Legos, doll, Dora stuff, clothes, Ben 10 watch, Bakugan. It was a hectic morning. We headed to SRC for brunch with a few other families and returned home to continue playing with toys. The Wii was a big hit that the whole family could play with. Even though it was cold, we were able to golf, bowl, and play tennis. We spent the rest of the vacation doing a bit of sightseeing, swimming (inside), playing more Wii and visiting with friends. We missed our families and our Dubai friends!

Christmas Photos